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Burial insurance: what a funeral costs and how to pay for it

Burial insurance is a small whole life policy, usually $5,000 to $25,000, whose payout your family can use for a funeral. Before buying one, it helps to know what a funeral actually costs, how burial insurance differs from prepaying a funeral home, and your rights when you buy funeral services.

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Key points

  • The median funeral with viewing and burial cost $8,300 in 2023; with viewing and cremation, $6,280. Cemetery costs come on top.
  • Burial insurance pays cash to your beneficiary. A preneed contract pays a specific funeral home for services chosen in advance.
  • The FTC Funeral Rule lets you get itemized prices and buy only what you want, including a casket from somewhere else.
  • A payable-on-death savings account can do the same job with no premiums if you have the money to set aside.

What burial insurance is

Burial insurance, also called funeral or final expense insurance, usually means a whole life insurance policy with a small death benefit meant to pay for a funeral. The Insurance Information Institute and the Washington insurance commissioner both put typical benefits between $5,000 and $25,000. The policy pays your chosen beneficiary, who can use the money however it's needed.

How these policies are underwritten, including guaranteed issue and graded death benefits, is covered in ourfinal expense insurance guide. This guide focuses on the funeral side: what to plan for and how to pay for it.

What a funeral costs

The National Funeral Directors Association surveys funeral home price lists. Its latest study, with 2023 prices, found these national medians:

Type of funeralMedian cost (2023)Previous study (2021)
Viewing and burial$8,300$7,848
Viewing and cremation$6,280$5,810

These medians cover the funeral home's services, the casket or cremation container and related items. They don't include cemetery charges such as a burial plot, opening and closing the grave, a burial vault (often required by cemeteries), a headstone or marker, flowers or an obituary. Those can add several thousand dollars. Direct cremation or direct burial, with no viewing or service at the funeral home, costs much less.

How much burial insurance you need

  1. Call two or three funeral homes near you and ask for their General Price List. They must give prices over the phone too.
  2. Price the cemetery separately: plot, opening and closing, vault and marker.
  3. Add other end-of-life costs you'd want covered, like a final medical deductible or travel for family.
  4. Subtract savings, existing life insurance, and any veterans or employer benefits your family can count on.

The gap is the face amount to shop for. Local prices vary widely, so use the price lists you collected rather than a national average.

Burial insurance vs. preneed plans

People often confuse burial insurance with prepaying a funeral home. They work differently:

Burial insurancePreneed funeral contract
Who sells itA life insurer, through an agent or by mailA funeral home, often funded by an insurance policy or a trust
Who gets paidYour beneficiary, in cashThe funeral home you chose
Can the money be used for anything?YesNo, it pays for the arranged services
Locks in today's prices?NoSometimes, if the contract guarantees prices
Main riskPaying more in premiums than the benefitThe funeral home closes or changes owners; refunds may be limited

The FTC warns that state protections for preneed money vary widely, and some offer little protection. If you consider one, ask what happens if you move, cancel or the business changes hands, and get the answers in writing.

Your rights when buying a funeral

The FTC's Funeral Rule applies to funeral homes and gives you the right to:

  • Get prices by phone, without giving your name.
  • Receive a General Price List to keep when you discuss arrangements in person.
  • See a casket price list before you see the caskets.
  • Buy only the goods and services you want, not a package.
  • Use a casket or urn bought elsewhere, with no handling fee.
  • Use an alternative container instead of a casket for cremation.
  • Get a written, itemized statement of what you chose before you pay.

No state requires routine embalming for every death, though a funeral home may require it for a public viewing.

Pitfalls to avoid

  • Paying more than the benefit. Regulators in Washington and South Carolina warn that over many years, premiums can exceed what the policy pays.
  • Assuming full coverage on day one. Many no-questions policies pay only premiums back, sometimes with interest, if death from illness happens in the first two or three years.
  • Keeping it secret. The FTC notes that if your family doesn't know about your arrangements, they may pay twice or your wishes may not be followed.
  • Paying cash to a salesperson. Pay the insurer or the trust directly, by check or bank transfer.

Alternatives to burial insurance

  • A payable-on-death bank account. Massachusetts' funeral board lists these as a way to set money aside for a funeral. The named person gets the funds without probate, and you pay no premiums.
  • Existing life insurance. A beneficiary can use any life policy payout for the funeral.
  • Planning without prepaying. Write down your wishes, compare price lists now, and tell your family where the money will come from.

Common questions

How much is burial insurance?

Premiums depend on your age, health, tobacco use and the face amount, and no neutral source publishes average prices. Small policies like these usually cost more per $1,000 of coverage than larger life insurance policies, so compare written quotes for the same face amount.

What is the difference between burial insurance and funeral insurance?

They are usually the same product: a small whole life policy that pays a beneficiary. Preneed funeral insurance is different, because it is tied to a specific funeral home and pays that provider.

Can my family use burial insurance for things other than the funeral?

Yes. Burial insurance pays your beneficiary, who can spend it on the funeral, other bills or anything else. A preneed contract, by contrast, pays the funeral home for the services you chose.

Do I have to buy a casket from the funeral home?

No. Under the FTC Funeral Rule, a funeral home can't refuse a casket or urn you bought elsewhere or charge you a fee for using it.

How this guide was made

We drafted this guide with help from AI writing tools, working from the sources listed below. Every fact was checked against those sources, and Marcus L. Barber read and reviewed the full page, including its title, description and FAQs, before it was published. AI tools don't decide what we publish; a person does. Our editorial standards.

Sources

  1. 2023 NFDA General Price List Study shows funeral costs not keeping pace with rate of inflation, National Funeral Directors Association
  2. What is burial insurance?, Insurance Information Institute
  3. Funeral insurance, Washington Office of the Insurance Commissioner
  4. Types of life insurance policies, New York State Department of Financial Services
  5. The FTC Funeral Rule, Federal Trade Commission
  6. Planning your own funeral, Federal Trade Commission
  7. Prepaid funeral FAQs, Oklahoma Insurance Department
  8. Common life insurance questions, South Carolina Department of Insurance
  9. Funeral directors consumer fact sheet, Massachusetts Board of Registration in Embalming and Funeral Directing